Sometimes it's that easy! I can't really advise on which dating site to use since I'm over a decade out of it, match, okcupid, eHarmony?
It is SO common! Men often do this on dating sites. You might get set up on some nice dates, and at least they come recommended. It can take some effort, but it's worth it. Veteran of the Million Man March Most important piece of on-line dating advice - one email, one reply and an easy, public get together - Starbucks on a weekend morning. As far as being superficial; you are not.