Living in a state of distrust is no way to be happy.
When you're "full of spirits," you might let your guard down. It should feel organic, never forced, and if you feel uncomfortable, just stop. Can you trust this person? Therefore you would think twice before doing that, which would give you an actual chance to miss each other and allow the feelings to develop. Texting rather than speaking your true feelings is the ultimate passive-aggressive move. Get a second opinion from a trusted friend, or if the text really bothers you, reply with something neutral and then bring it up to your date in person. Tap here to turn on desktop notifications to get the news sent straight to you.